See things as you would have them be instead of as they are.
So much of our existence is based on the "unknown" - in fact we spend most of our lives searching for answers to so many questions that we often forget to LIVE our lives!!
We cannot let that continue!
What if I told you that I can show you a fool-proof way to add more control to your human interactions, your work day, your personal time, you career, your "playtime", etc! A way to pre-pave results that you WANT - and will come to EXPECT - as opposed to firing away and hoping for the Best?
The concept is a sort of "pre-planning" exercise that you do prior to any interaction, meeting, conversation, event, etc.
It does not take long to master once you have the hang of it -- and it is based on a key concept we advocate and strongly believe in -- VISUALIZATION!
Here is how you do it --- Prior to any meeting or event that you want to succeed, you must take a few moments and pre-pave what you WANT to come from that meeting or event.
As an example, say you are meeting someone for the first time - say for an interview for a job. As the interviewee and job seeker, your goal is to IMPRESS the other party in order to possibly land the job.
Prior to the meeting - close your eyes and visualize HOW YOU WANT that meeting to go. Picture yourself calm, poised, in control, confident - the pure IMAGE of a Winner!
Continue to visualize yourself speaking of your accomplishments, your skils and talents- and picture the interviewers reactions as you calmly and confidently stride through the interview - never losing your composure, always thinking through the answers briefly before answering.
Picture what you will wear - see yourself dressed to perfection and impeccable -- and see yourself walking out of that interview satisfied, confident that you did your best and see the interviewer impressed and wanting to hire you!
Really visualize it clearly in your mind -the MORE DETAILS the BETTER- the sounds, smells, sights, emotions - release all of the FEAR and UNCERTAINTY and really experience how it will feel to get that job offer!
Practice this in everyday meetings - set the goal in your mind as to what you WANT to come from your interactions - and the stronger and better visualizer you will become!
You WILL see a difference in your results quickly!
Try it today -- Trust me - it works!
Monday?? So What - it is just another day to experience the beauty and challenges of life - and it has NO HOLD on your emotions UNLESS you allow it to!
Deep Breath - step back and enjoy your day --- PRE-PAVE what YOU WANT in your Head first- and the rest of it will be DELIVERED to you!
Stay Strong!~
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