-- George Costanza, Seinfeld....
We seldom think of anything dealing with the term "rejection" as positive, however there is one important use for rejection that is 100% positive!
We are constantly listening to our inner voice - that omnipresent "guide" that seems to dictate our moods and emotions almost constantly.
It often appears to be programmed in a cautionary and negative manner as many of these "thoughts" that derive from that voice are negative in nature.
This is the voice that says:
"Don't do it - you are not qualified for it"
"Better not try - you always lose"
"Why would they want you for that role?"
"Remember 4th grade? Well you don't want that to happen to you again - do you?"
"Don't ask her on a date - she will never like someone like you."
You get the gist. Not exactly motivating support!
Does this "guidance" system seem like a good ally? Does it seem fair and objective?
If you had a friend or partner or spouse who spoke the way you let your "inner voice" speak to you, how long do you think you would be able to take it before you wither and die in spirit?
Well - we do have this problem and we do allow it to rule us at times - but guess what - we do not have to!!
We hold the power to VETO and REJECT these seemingly automatic thoughts that occur whenever we ponder an action.
Reject that voice outright!!
Say aloud that your voice has lost it's mind - is no friend of yours - and begin to replace that negative thought with an affirmation - or your MAITH (your aforementioned Mental Ace in the Hole)
Reject this nagging, negative draw on your soul EVERY TIME and you will start to crack this bad pattern that so often holds us prisoner!!!!
The time to Reject it is NOW!! This very minute!!!
You will see results in your mood, your emotions, your life almost immediately!!
Do not be shy!!!! Go after it like a Lion!!! Invite the voice to try and take you down --and send it back from whence it came with it's tail between it's legs!!!
Have a great and positive Monday and as always - Stay Strong!!!
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